The Reality

Having a good heart is hard.
It is too easy to be taken advantage of. You open up and allow your weaknesses to be attacked each and every time.
People will realise ever too quickly that you will always be there.
They understand that you will never be too ‘busy’ for them because in the click of a finger you would do anything you could to make them smile.
They know you’ll always make excuses for them no matter how wrong they may be.
They know that you’ll accept the apologies you never receive and will always carry on as if nothing bad had ever happened.
They know that no matter how bad they treat you, you will always come running back.
They see you as much too easy to be used when they need you and then to just be thrown away once they’re done.

Having a good heart also makes it harder to accept the love that you deserve, because in reality you don’t see much love for yourself as you indulge it all into other people.
You are so caring. You are so loving. You will give everything with no expectations at all. You will put a smile on someone else’s face even if it means removing it from your own. You give up so much of your time just to help the ones you care for.
And at the end of the day, these are all beautiful qualities. But unfortunately, in the society we all live in, a good heart is rare and very hard to be matched.
We settle for less than we deserve because our expectations are so low.
We excuse others behaviour because we always have hope and faith that it may someday change, no matter how many times we are let down.
We all dream of that prince, when majority of us settle for the frog.

The saddest part about people like this is that it takes so long for them to crack.
It takes a lot for these people to turn their backs on the ones they love and finally walk away.
It takes a lot of damage for them to lose faith in the things they throw their hearts into. The inner strength these people need to reach that point and turn their back in order to find what they deserve, is beyond measurable.
A heart doesn’t turn cold unless it is pushed to its limits. And believe me when I say this, if you break a heart like this and take this girl for granted, the sun will no longer shine within your soul as you have given away gold whilst searching for silver.

Being selfless is wonderful and compliments the type of person that you are. But it is a quality which requires a strong heart and mind to carry, as it is so often where these types of people are hurt and left broken for reasons beyond their control.
Being hurt is no reflection on you, it is a reflection on the person who has put you in this position.
It is therefore important in situations like these that we don’t lose ourselves in the sight of loving others. Because you are beautiful, you are unique and you are worth it. Do not let anybody change your soul. It is YOURS.
Heal your heart and find the true meaning of love.
Find yourself a love that will never let you down.
Find yourself a love that will prioritise you.
Find yourself a love that will look at you each day and make you know that you are the only one for them.
Find yourself the love we read about in books and see in the movies.
Find yourself the love that puts a smile on your face day in and day out, and one that is there to wipe the tears on a stormy day.
Find the love that you truly deserve.

It may all take time and it may all be a roller coaster, but at the end of the day, if along the way you are lucky enough to find someone with a heart as pure as yours, don’t fear it. Appreciate it and allow it into your life. Knock those walls down and follow your instincts.
Go out there and ‘Trust the guidance of the universe’ because everything you need to know is being revealed to you in the perfect SPACE-TIME SEQUENCE. You’ll always get what you truly deserve.